And we going swingers to give sex lessons from California?

I also believe that a good relationship is based on trust and i could tell you that doing fun things such as going to the gym going out to eat and someone who doesn't mind sitting at home some nights just watching tv or sitting on the porchtorrent. So if i don't sound like the girl for you thats fine by me b/c i'd rather be chilling with the boys than being chased after them. And sometimes swingers don't act our age in California.